Valentines...

Happy valentine's day to whoever is reading this!

I hope you had a wonderful time with your partner, and as for those who broke up/something wrong happened, well, i feel for you. Don't destroy the entire forest because of a solitary tree.

Me?

Well lets just leave it at i was date-less on that day. lol

So yea. I went out on valentines day to pay for IDP deposit as i've mentioned previously. Then i decided to go takashimaya to look for something. Along the way, i met many couples. Lovey-dovey and all.

Some girls were carrying huge bouquets of flowers with their boyfriend or husband by their side while some girls were alone and yet were holding a single stalk of rose or something. I was wondering why they were doing that until i saw an indian fella outside wisma giving those roses to those single women outside haha.

So yea, as i was walking, i figured out a theory on why girls like to flaunt that they recieved flowers on that special day!

1. Their boyfriend is ugly. The flower distracts the passerbys from looking at the boyfriend.
2. She is ugly. It distracts passerbys from her bloody face.

Haha!

Those truly pretty and handsome couples don't bring along any flowers because they have no need to! They just bathe in their natural "i'm very good looking! Eat that!" aura that exudates from their dainty bodies and people would be in awe and make way for that wonderous duo.

Well, similarly for the really ugly pairs, they probably have given up on trying to distract people from their looks and thus decided to scare people off with their looks and have their paths cleared! What a good way of crowd control!

Flowers to me aren't just distracting tools to be used on valentine's.

They are rather symbolic of valentine's. Where a guy or a girl, expresses his/her love for the other, in which case, its usually the guy who gives the flowers. Of course, they are people who think that its customary to give flowers to girls on valentine's even if they are not romantically attracted to her and in some situations, it can be both good and bad.

Good because it makes her happy. I guess its a natural hormonal or whatever reaction that girls have when they recieve flowers.

Bad because she might overthink it. Or she hates flowers =X

Would you be happy if someone gives you, a beautiful bouquet of 99 crimson red roses, a box of 12 heart-shaped godiva chocolate in a brilliant purple heart-shaped casing and a small pink heart-shaped pendant/necklace from tiffany and co. and a cute as hell teddy bear that says "i love you" as your valentine's gift?

Well i wouldn't do that to the girl i like.

No doubt chocolates, flowers, jewellery and stuff toys are symbolic of valentine's, i still think its so cliche. Everybody is doing that because its "safe"

Then again, if the girl like them, i have nothing to say haha.

I would go for a more practical gift. Something which they can use. Something like a pen =D

Why a pen? Its practical. It can be elegant, depending on what pen you chose. It is professional. Something people don't normally recieve on valentine's day. That's why its so special because it showed that you've actually put thought into what gift you gave and not just settled for the cliche items.

Who disagrees with me?

On other matters, i promised myself not to write stuff concerning my emotions in the blog as it showed the inmaturity in my writing as i have done so before in my ancient blogs. Almost did. But i took it down in 10mins. Hope nobody saw it. =X

Well anyway, i think things concerning emotions, are not meant for public display. And when i mean emotions, i refer them to things concerning you being sad about being rejected by a girl and all. Its okay to write it down somewhere to pen down your thoughts and vent your frustration. But its not ok to post it on your blog. I for one, cannot take you seriously if your entire blog is full of contradicting emotions which is usually the case. Thats why i prefer not to show this "weakness". If you want to know, ask me. I will tell you. As much as i think you are allowed to know.



My place in there is fixed. It will never change. Won't it?